Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
After a storm comes a calm.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
Well done is better than well said.
Who seeks shall find.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Only the educated are free.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.