The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Know or listen to those who know.
You never know what motivates you.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
It's a sad commentary when I have to say that sometimes in our country we are real sensitive to race.