The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
If you've got a talent, protect it.
Leap, and the net will appear.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Wherever you are - be all there.
A grandchild is a miracle, but a renewed relationship with your own children is even a greater one.